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Steve Seo's avatar

For me, as a Korean-American, I find it a blessing that I can identify as a Korean-American, or Asian-American. There are cons to being Asian and not being White, but I am blessed because I am exposed to dual cultures and customs. There is wisdom and understanding and a way of life in the Korean culture that you don't see in American culture, and at the same time there are American customs and ways of life that I prefer over certain Korean cultures. Korean vs. American culture–different customs, different and yet similar values, oh so different but at the same time oh so familiar. I love my culture's focus on respect, on treating elders with respect, on respecting your family and filial piety, I love my culture's focus on deferential and formal respectful treatment of others, evident from the very beginning by our very standardized but proper form of greeting anyone you are meeting for the first time. I am blessed that although the way I look may invite derision and ill will from people who are short on understanding, my dual identity as a person in this world, being able to share and straddle both worlds, is a privilege, a comfort, a blessing, a learning experience, and something I don't want to take for granted. My dual identity makes me a more understanding, astute person and gives me perspective and gives me a wonderful and blessed lens which is another means of interpreting and living in this world.

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Joy Huang's avatar

I was surprised that 57% of white Americans don't feel like they belong and are accepted in the US!

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